Hi guys, on this post i would like to deal with the following issue that one of my readers commented me on,
Reader: “i struggle to keep communication alight. I lose interest to call or app. Sometimes i get busy and forget to app while online doing discussions on other groups or writing teachings and other things then end up appearing as though am being ignoramus. So with time a girl suspects cheating or that she is not loved then a break up comes. I as well can not bear anything long distance, in my mind have concluded it doesn’t work. So it draws my energy away maybe mainly it’s because of what happened in my first relationship.”
There is the issue or struggle that one of our fellow brothers is facing, but hey if you are also facing a similar predicament, worry not, am here to assist.
2. Loss of interest to maintain the relationship
3. Past heartbreaks
I have discovered that most guys are very sincere in relationships but are very IGNORANT on how to navigate a relationship.
Communication is the Fulcrum and pith of the Relationship.
A woman in a relationship craves a communicating guy. Nice words,compliments,appreciation, good humorous and Sweet nothings.
No matter how quiet your disposition is in life, when you come to relationship, you have to be a preacher(talkative) but Not a Liar. KKK
A woman wants to know that she is number 1 in your world.
How can you be online on whats app/ Skype then fail to text her?
She will conclude that she is not a priority in your life and she will be correct.
As you come to begin a relationship you need to check how much knowledge you have learned from observing your parents and guardians. Were they good examples of relating or you have to go and try to learn from good examples before you begin yours with emotions but no wisdom.
Another thing every Man must understand that the way to a Lady’s heart is EMOTIONAL therefore the Emotional momentum you begin Courtship with must be MAINTAINED AND BE IMPROVED ON not to slacken to Cold indifference.
With texts like “…Baby what app?”or how is it going?What do you expect her to say to boring conversation?
There are four elements that a guy’s conversations must contain to make the relationship exciting…..
3.Fun and Tenderness
Women are attracted to Confidence in men.
Mind you Confidence is not Arrogance.
A man must demonstrate Decisive Leadership. A woman naturally craves to surrender or submit to strong and decisive Leadership. It is not love to let the woman make decisions especially if she has asked for your opinion. For example if she asks where do we meet tomorrow afternoon and you say …wherever you want baby?KKK. In marriage she asks what relish do you want and you say whatever you want…..
It might seem you are showing her Love but it will come out as Indecision. Brothers beware!!!
3.Fun and Tenderness.
Humorous is very important my Brothers. Can you make a woman laugh often with good and clean humor.
It shows Confidence, Tenderness and Fun. A Courtship should be an enjoyable experience with you Not Court Session of boring investigative questions and bylaws and being given commandments.
By words and by actions show that you can be trusted and depended upon. Fulfill your promises no matter how small. Apologize sincerely.
Show her your gentle side. Talk to her about your day. Allow her to peep into your world …Show her your vulnerable side.Past hurts etc
stay tuned for more….
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